So far, ZoneAlarm ForceField is the only mainstream consumer security product I can find that blocks this attack and the other Waledac botnet attacks starting on day one. Anti-spam should block some or most of the spam that initiates this attack, but it is rarely 100% reliable. Good internet sense may stop you from clicking on the link, but who knows, maybe you do have a Valentine somewhere that loves you. There are some techy PC virtualization and sandbox software programs out there, but they are too cumbersome for most people.
PS. If you want to learn more about the Waledac Valentine's Day attack, the Waledac botnet or Storm botnet, these are my favorite posts on the subject:
Malware Writers Use Multiple Botnets to Spread Valentine's Day Heartache
eWeek by Brian Prince
Another Waledac Valentine's Day Spam Run Has Started
MX Logic IT Security Blog
New And Improved Storm Botnet Morphing Valentine's Malware
Dark Reading by Kelly Jackson Higgins

I continously get a problem of upgrading ZA free version using the zaSetup_en.exe file. The exe starts allright but after 100 % downloading I get an error message and the only available option that functions is “cancel download”. This situation has not changed in one week. Something is corrupt in the downloader. Why this is not beeing coirrected I just can’t guess.
One more thing , I chose the option download (using the zaSetup.exe).
/fredrik