Hello MuffinCharizardIt looks like reformating might be the best way to be safe, and then avoid downloading emails from people. I was reading that there are programs that will allow this sort of monitoring if you just download the wrong thing. They will install without you knowing and they will give this sort of access. It would seem that the obsession with spying on each others has created a market for this sort of thing.Oh well. I think I would like to know what was done and how, but I have some ideas, I have been doing a lot of reading. Thanks for your post and suggestions.